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Give Him the Benefit of the Doubt

Updated: Jun 30, 2020

If you've been with your man, it's safe to say that you feel like you know him.

Like know him, know him.

You probably could say that you know how he would react in certain situations whether good or bad.

Most times, acting as if you can assume your husband's responses to questions or which way he is going to drive in order to go home is amusing.

But when you start assuming negative motives and intent about your hubby, it can be detrimental to your relationship.

Once you start allowing these negative thoughts to bum rush your mind, it can be the beginning of a downward spiral that can lead to disconnect and distance that takes even more work to get back from.

Instead of going down the rabbit hole, change your thoughts and believe that your husband has good intentions.

I'm pretty sure that we can all think of a time when we made an assumption and didn't give our men the benefit of the doubt.

We conjured up all the receipts and made sure we had a closing argument.

We got ourselves all worked up; wanted to cuss him out, yell, and scream.

And then he gives you the Kevin Hart face and says, “Are you done yet?"

And proves us wrong and we’re all embarrassed because we were acting crazy lol

And now we wants some love.