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How to Be the Girl He Likes

“The lust of the flesh, the lust of the eye, and the pride of life.”

With all of these video vixens and Instagram models, how could I compete?

How could I know for sure that I was absolutely what he wanted when there were skinnier, prettier, and younger women out there that he could have?

Over the years, I have learned that overall, a man’s love is pretty constant.

Unless, he is just blatantly cheating on you, his love won’t waiver.

Men don’t need constant reminders that their women love them.

Women on the other hand, love to hear “I love you.”

I know I do.

I would get on Ya’Seen’s last nerve because I would just about every day ask him if he loved me.

His answer would often be, “Ask your ring finger.”

He would get so frustrated with me because I would ask him so many times.

He would then proceed to ask me if I believed that he loves me.

My answer would always be yes, but I just liked to hear it.

This continued to happen in our marriage, mainly because we weren’t speaking each other’s love language.

That’s a whole other story.

Another thing that I have learned over the years is that men have blurred vision when it comes to our physical bodies.

It’s like they have this magical filter on their eyes that allows them not to see the extra roll or double chin.

That lingerie that you think shows all of your flaws still turns him on every single time.