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Keep It How It Is So He Can Never Say How It Used To Be

Updated: Jun 30, 2020

Have you heard that song x Beyonce? Dance For You?

It's such a great and sexy song.

And she just let's it all out on how she is keeping her marriage a priority in the bedroom, which so important.

But I want to focus on other areas of your marriage in which you should have that same energy.

Here are three areas in which you should keep it how it is so your man can never say how it used to be.

Physical Health

I don't know about you, but I am not the same weight I was when I first got married nor do I have the same body I did after having two additional kids.

I miss that body.

But what I have found is that I have to love my body in every season that it is in.

Thank God I have a husband that still finds me attractive after giving him babies, stretch marks, and the extra 20 pounds of cushion for the pushing.

Tbh, because my husband still found me attractive even with the extra weight gain, I began to not care anymore about how much my body had changed, but something did shift.

I would walk up three flight of stairs and be completely out of breath.

This was unacceptable.

I had hated that I had gotten to this point and I knew that I had to make some changes.